Homeschool Pioneers: Chris and Ellyn Davis

 

Chris Davis                                    Ellyn Davis

Homeschool Pioneers: Chris and Ellyn Davis

 

Chris and Ellyn Davis founded The Elijah Company which supplied materials and insightful articles for homeschooling families for over 15 years, starting in the 1980’s. 

Unfortunately, Chris passed away in 2019, but some of the articles have been preserved in some books that his wife compiled.

In the book called “I Saw the Angel in the Marble (Unconventional Homeschooling Guides Book 2)” which is available on Amazon, they gave us a list of reasons to homeschool. 

Obvious reasons are:

  • Being able to choose teaching materials that reinforce our religious beliefs and moral standards

  • The academic superiority of a one-on-one teaching situation

  • The ability to monitor socialization experiences

  • The freedom to tailor the course of study to the individual

  • The flexibility to create more family time

But they said that there are other reasons that are not mentioned as often. These are listed here:

  

  • We want to create a different kind of human being.

  • We object to the presuppositions and objectives of the public schools.

Which according to John Taylor Gatto are teaching these six lessons:

  1. Stay in the class where you belong.

  2. Nothing important is ever finished.

  3. Surrender your will to a pre-appointed chain of command.

  4. Good people wait for a teacher to tell them what to do.

  5. Your self-respect should depend on someone else’s measure of your worth.

  6. You must constantly be watched because no one can be trusted.

  • We believe institutionalized education is harmful to children.

  *About socialization, researchers discovered that children who spend more time with adults become better socialized than children who spend most of their time with their peers. In addition, they tell us about the other areas of concern about institutionalized education, such as: 

  1. Self-esteem

  2. Learning readiness

  3. Gender differences

  4. The Factory mentality

  5. Safety

  • We want our children educated for the real world.

Here’s a quote from John Taylor Gatto:

“Schools school; life educates.”

  • We want each child to discover his or her true identity. 

“If each person is uniquely gifted for a specific life work, then each must be given some very specific tools of the trade as well as a lot of time to spend becoming good at talents or callings.”

  • We want a relationship with our children. 

“I want to know my children and I want them to know me.”

  • We are preparing our children for the future.

“God is giving us just enough faith so that, if we are willing to hear Him and do something that most others are unwilling to do this generation will emerge from our families with an uncomplicated faith in their God, an unmoveable disagreement with darkness, and an unmistaken sense that they were born for such a day as this.”

Ellyn Davis put together a series called “Unconventional Homeschooling Guides” which include “Why homeschool”: Developing Strong Enough Why”; “ I Saw the Angel in the Marble”; and “I Carved the Angel From the Marble”. The “Angel” books are compiled from articles from The Elijah Company and Home School Marketplace (which are no longer operating). You can find these books on Amazon

 

They are chock full of homeschool wisdom. You will want to read them slowly and carefully and over and over again.

Chris wrote a book in 2014 called Gifted: Raising Children Intentionally. Unfortunately, it’s out of print and hard to find. But if you ever see it at a used book store or somewhere, you should grab it. It’s really good. 

These pioneers of homeschooling have a lot to teach us. 

They describe 3 types of homeschoolers as homeschooling has transitioned through several phases: Pioneers, Settlers, and Refugees

 

I’m in the Settlers group, and I read the books and learned from the Pioneers. But the Refugees have a different reason for homeschooling than the first two groups. 

 

The following is taken from Chapter 5 of “I Saw the Angel in the Marble”.

 

“The Pioneers homeschooled because they had a vision that others had not yet begun to see. 

 

“Many homeschooling Pioneers only vaguely understood why they felt compelled to homeschool their children. They often had trouble communicating the reasons they were driven to do “such a radical thing.” As a consequence, they often had to withstand censure from those they loved; and constant threats of harassment or arrest from authorities. Yet they moved forward through these difficulties because they could not help themselves. They had a conviction that what they were doing was the right thing to do.”

 

“In the early days of homeschooling, none of the Christian publishers would sell products to a homeschooling family. These families had to figure out how to do everything themselves as well as create their own materials. They had to “make it up as they went.” The phrase back then was, “Are you doing this because you have a Conviction, or because this is only a Preference?” What this question meant was that the courts would usually leave a homeschooling family alone if that family could prove they had a conviction to homeschool that kept them from sending their children to another kind of school.

 

“If, on the other hand, they only preferred homeschooling to other forms of education, the courts tended to feel that preference was not enough reason to allow parents this choice. In some instances, their children were forcibly removed from their homes. The Pioneers were being watched by many families who tended to agree with homeschooling, but did not want to face the consequences of such a radical decision. Eventually, however, a large group of what we now call the Settlers came to believe in what the Pioneers were doing. By the time the Settlers became involved, homeschooling had become legal and many of the mistakes made by the Pioneers had been corrected.

 

“The Settlers liked the lifestyle they saw being exhibited in Pioneer families. They liked the materials created by the Pioneers. They, too, began to have the conviction that this new/old way was the best, and perhaps, the only way to raise their children.

 

“A few years ago, as homeschooling became an accepted alternative to both public and private schooling, parents dissatisfied with government schools and unable to afford private education began to withdraw their children from “school.” An increasing stream of Refugees began to flood into homeschooling. Refugees want their children to receive a “traditional” (like the public school) education; but, for various reasons, they just don’t want their children in a traditional school. These homeschoolers tend to have great difficulty homeschooling and that difficulty creates failure which, in turn, drives them to return their children to the institutional school.

 

“What is the problem with a Refugee mindset? First of all, Refugees do not have a (positive) vision for homeschooling.

 

“Rather, they are focused on escaping something negative (school). Refugees do not have the conviction that drives the Pioneer and, usually, the Settler. Refugees do not want to learn what the Pioneers have to tell them. This is because they are homeschooling for different reasons than the Pioneers. Refugees are homeschooling out of a reaction to the conditions in the public schools, so they only want to know answers to such questions as: “Where can I purchase materials that work, are the cheapest, and require the least of me as the ‘teacher’?” “Does the material look like public school material; will it accomplish the same ends as public school material; and will it keep my child on track with his public schooled counterparts?” 

“Unless Refugees become at least like Settlers, they can’t realize that homeschooling is not just another way to educate one’s children. It is a totally different way of living and relating as a family unit. It is a different way of looking at children and their futures and how we “get them there.”  

“In reality, homeschooling is just a part of the total picture of family life. This is why the kind of educational and social experiences found in what Pioneer homeschoolers call “the institutional school” cannot be easily replicated at home. We can’t really (and mustn’t) “bring the children home and their school along with them.” Institutional schooling works best in an institution. It doesn’t work very well in the home. If you are a Refugee and have read this article to the end (and this is the end), we recommend that you not stop here. Never allow yourself to stop learning how to do this thing we call “homeschooling.” Attend seminars and get seminars on CD. Remember: All it takes to become a Pioneer is to do what God tells you to do. And, all it takes for a Pioneer to stop being a Pioneer is to fail to move on with God. Happy Homeschooling for the next generation.”

Some of the links in the book don’t work because the websites are no longer active.

If you would like to learn more about Chris Davis, here are some places to hear him speak and to read about what he believed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cMsOyFhy7so interview with The Luminous Mind called Episode 171 – Chris Davis, Helping to Give Generations of Parents Courage

https://www.theluminousmind.net/single-post/2017/01/24/episode-171-chris-davis-helping-to-give-generations-of-parents-courage  the audio from the above interview

https://lifeschoolingconference.com/chris-davis-tribute/ A tribute from a homeschool mom who knew him and followed the principles he taught. This includes a podcast she did with Chris.

Module 4: Different learning styles and ways that kids are smart (and moms, too!)

 

 

Learning Styles

There are different ways that people learn best. I learn best by reading. I would be classified as a visual learner. Others learn best by listening. They are auditory learners and would do well with audiobooks or being read aloud to or even reading aloud to themselves. Others learn best by moving, touching and manipulating. They are considered kinesthetic learners or hands-on learners.

Study and learn your own kids.

Further reading on this subject:
The Way They Learn

Every Child Can Succeed: Making the Most of Your Child’s Learning Style

By Cynthia Ulrich Tobias

There are other ways to categorize cognitive styles or different ways of thinking and learning. We need to find the ways that work best for ourselves. And we also would do our children a great favor by helping them discover the style that helps them to learn more quickly, efficiently and thoroughly.

We also should observe and study the way in which we organize our learning in our brains and what is the most comfortable and conducive atmosphere for us to learn in.

Multiple Intelligences

Linguistic, Logical, Spatial, Musical, Kinesthetic, Interpersonal, Intrapersonal

These are 7 categories that have been identified by Dr. Howard Gardner, a professor of education at Harvard.

Dr. Kathy Koch writes and speaks about 8 great smarts. She writes about the multiple intelligences and tweaks them a little bit. She calls them: Word Smart, Logic Smart, Picture Smart, Music Smart, Body Smart, Nature Smart, People Smart and Self Smart.

She wrote a book called “8 Great Smarts” in which she explores the different ways that children can be smart. A summary of the topics covered in this book is here:

“Your child is smart, but does he or she believe it?

“Smart” is a power word. Children who believe they’re smart excel more in school and approach life with greater confidence. But children who don’t can struggle to apply themselves. Do you wish your child could see how smart he or she is?

Find hope in 8 Great Smarts. You’ll be empowered and equipped with new language and creative ideas for how to:

Accept and affirm your child’s unique smarts
Motivate your child to learn and study with all 8 smarts
Reawaken any “paralyzed” smarts
Redirect misbehavior in new, constructive ways
Guide your child spiritually, relationally, and to a good career fit
Dr. Kathy Koch loves seeing children flourish and helping parents make it happen–and it’s never too late to start. Now is the time to help your child be all that God designed him or her to be.”

Dr. Kathy has written other helpful books that offer parents tools to lead their children to become the best version of themselves and discover who God made them to be.

There’s another model that goes even further than the multiple intelligences in exploring what qualities several people who are considered geniuses had in common. This is a fascinating topic to think about as we are examining our children and learning how to keep the love of learning alive in our children. You can read about the 12 Genius Qualities HERE. I’ll give you a hint: They’re probably not what you think they are. Okay, I’ll tell you what the genius qualities are: curiosityplayfulnessimaginationcreativitywonderwisdominventivenessvitalitysensitivityflexibilityhumor, and joy.

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New brain studies have revealed information about how our brains work that have fascinating implications for teaching and learning.

For more information about brain-based learning read books by Dr. Caroline Leaf:

Switch On Your Brain

and

Think and Eat Yourself Smart

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It can also be helpful to determine your personality type and the personality of each of your children.

If you understand yourself, you can modify the way you do things in a way that lowers stress and helps you to feel successful and avoids stressing yourself out.

And if you understand your child’s personality, you may learn how to say things in such a way or explain concepts in a way that makes sense to him/her. You may figure out how to avoid conflict and attain a better understanding of why your child says and does the things they say and do. At least, you may become more patient and gain some clues that will help you to have more peaceful interactions within your family if you understand what makes them tick. You may be very surprised to find out what some of them are thinking. Lots of times, they hear something completely different from what you were trying to say to them!

There are several different ways to find out what your personality type is.

One is the Myers-Briggs personality test. You can take the test for free at https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

And some are specifically made for homeschool moms so that we can identify our strengths and weaknesses and we can become more comfortable in our own skin and not compare ourselves to other homeschool moms or try to imitate them when their ways will not work for us.

Myers Briggs for homeschool: https://www.simplyconvivial.com/2016/homeschool-personality

I personally found this helpful in understanding and accepting the differences in the way different people conduct their homeschools and feeling affirmed that what I was doing was okay and acceptable, because it lined up with the way God made me.

You may pinpoint your mothering personality here:

Mothering Personality Inventory

This is a good thing to know so that you can refrain from judging others because of lack of understanding. In Jill’s words:

“We desperately need to be true to ourselves, allow others to be different, and knock off the judgement that so easily creeps into our head and our heart!”

Another way of measuring personality types is the Personality Colors quiz from Full Spectrum Communication: https://jacobadamo.com/personality-colors-quiz/

 

To go a little deeper you may want to read the book “Strengths Finder 2.0” by Tom Rath. This could help you discover what you were made to do and help you fulfill your calling. This concept emphasizes finding out your strengths and capitalizing on them instead of working hard on areas that you are weak in, because you are not gifted and called to do these things. Chasing your weaknesses does not make sense.

Of course, you can look at it from the perspective that God may call you to do something that is difficult for you to do so that you have to lean on Him and go in His strength instead of your own. But in many cases, the Lord gifts you to do the thing that He has called you to do.

And you may discover hidden gifts as you grow and mature. It makes life very interesting, to say the least.

This may seem like it’s a tangent, but I really like tangents myself 🙂 so here goes! I think it’s also good to find out what your love language is and the love languages of the rest of your family. If you would like to find out more about what that’s all about, read “The Five Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman. And then you may also want to read “The Five Love Languages of Children” and “The Five Love Languages of Teens“. You can find these and many other helpful resources HERE.

As you delve deeper into purpose, calling, destiny, and helping your children become all that God made them to be, you may want to check out Dr. Lance Wallnau’s teachings and resources at https://lancewallnau.com/category/motivational/

American History Living Books – For Readers of All Ages

American History Living Books

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American History Living Books

Native American

Walk the World’s Rim by Betty Baker

Om-Kas-Toe by Kenneth Thomasma

Jamestown

Pocahontas and the Strangers by Clyde Robert Bulla

Advanced

The Keepers of the Ring series by Angela Elwell Hunt

This Dear-Bought Land by Jean Lee Latham

Pilgrims

Picture Books

Squanto and the Miracle of Thanksgiving by Eric Metaxas

Squanto’s Journey: The Story of the First Thanksgiving by Joseph Bruchac

Thunder from the Clear Sky by Marcia Sewall

Easy Reader

Squanto: Friend of the Pilgrims by Clyde Robert Bulla

Pilgrim Voices: Our First Year in the New World by Connie Roop

The Story of the Pilgrims for Children by Roland Usher

https://archive.org/details/storyofpilgrimsf00ushe/page/n19/mode/2up

Advanced

The House of Winslow series by Gilbert Morris

Stories of the Pilgrims by Margaret Pumphrey

https://archive.org/details/storiesofpilgrim00pump/page/16/mode/2up

The Courtship of Miles Standish by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

https://archive.org/details/courtshipofmiles1903long/page/20/mode/1up

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American Revolution

Picture Books

George Washington by Ingri and Edgar D’Aulaire

We the People: The Story of Our Constitutions by Lynne Cheney

Easy Reader

They Called Her Molly Pitcher by Anne Rockwell

Phoebe the Spy by Judith Berry Griffin

When Washington Crossed the Delaware by Lynne Cheney

Advanced

Toliver’s Secret by Esther Wood Brady

Johnny Tremain by Esther Forbes

Great Battles for Boys The American Revolution by Joe Giorello

True to the Old Flag: A Tale of the American War of Independence by G. A. Henty (from the British perspective)

The Crossing by Jim Murphy

Woods Runner by Gary Paulsen

Washington at Valley Forge by Russell Freedman

George Washington’s Secret Six: The Spy Ring That Saved America by Brian Kilmeade

Colonial Life

Picture Books

Ben and Me: An Astonishing Life of Benjamin Franklin by His Good Mouse Amos by Robert Lawson

How We Crossed the West: The Adventures of Lewis and Clark by Rosalyn Schanzer

Ox-cart Man by Donald Hall

Easy Reader

Charlie’s House by Clyde Robert Bulla

Advanced

The Jefferson Lies by David Barton and Wallbuilders – Advanced

Thomas Jefferson’s America: Stories of the Founding Fathers by Jim Weiss – audiobook

Thomas Jefferson and the Tripoli Pirates (Young Readers Adaptation): The War That Changed American History by Brian Kilmeade

Streams to the River, River to the Sea: A Novel of Sacagawea by Scott O’Dell – Lewis and Clark Expedition

The Witch of Blackbird Pond by Elizabeth George Speare

Justin Morgan Had a Horse by Marguerite Henry

Amos Fortune, Free Man by Elizabeth Yates

Carry On, Mr. Bowditch by Jean Lee Latham

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Pioneers

Easy Reader

Daniel’s Duck by Clyde Robert Bulla

Riding the Pony Express by Clyde Robert Bulla

Wagon Wheels by Barbara Brenner

Advanced

Caddie Woodlawn by Carol Ryrie Brink

Young Pioneers by Rose Wilder Lane (daughter of Laura Ingalls Wilder)

The Sign of the Beaver by Elizabeth George Speare

Tree in the Trail by Holling C. Holling

Moccasin Trail by Eloise Jarvis McGraw

Story of the Oregon Trail (Part of the Cornerstones of Freedom Series)
by R. Conrad Stein

Inside the Alamo by Jim Murphy

I Remember the Alamo by D. Anne Love

California Gold Rush

By the Great Horn Spoon by Sid Fleischman

The Ballad of Lucy Whipple by Karen Cushman

Riding Freedom by Pam Munoz Ryan

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Civil War

Picture Books

Henry’s Freedom Box by Ellen Levine

Nurse, Soldier, Spy: the Story of Sarah Edmonds, a Civil War Hero by Marissa Moss

Advanced

Between Two Flags series by Lee Roddy

Across Five Aprils by Irene Hunt

Caddie Woodlawn by Carol Ryrie Brink

Roll of Thunder Hear My Cry by Mildred D. Taylor

Shades of Gray by Carolyn Reeder

With Lee in Virginia A Story of the American Civil War by G. A. Henty

And for some good British Adventure books

Horatio Hornblower series – Mr. Midshipman Hornblower is the first one

Tarzan by Edgar Rice Burroughs

The Coral Island and other adventure books by R. M. Ballantyne

G. A. Henty – he wrote adventures about places all over the world

Safe Haven News – March

Hey Safe Haven Family!

😊 I've been thinking about you and how much faith it takes for you to homeschool. I wrote a blog post here that will encourage you in your decision to homeschool and edify you in the faith and courage it takes for you to daily set up an atmosphere of learning and trust the learning process to produce the results you want in your children - that they will acquire the knowledge and skills they need to succeed.

Homeschooling Takes Great Faith - But I Have Faith that You Can Do It!




Homeschooling takes great faith and dedication.

Mom, you deserve a medal🥇, a trophy🏆, a big salary💰! 

But we know what the true rewards are. All moms are blessed to feel the love we have for our children that is like no other. It is an honor and a privilege to raise children, and when we homeschool we get to spend more time with them and watch them learn and grow. We get to help them become all that they were meant to be. 

But some of us are trying so hard to do everything right that we miss out on the light-hearted fun times that come with kids and imagination. Please make sure that you are not so concerned about grades and test scores, finishing workbooks, and keeping your house tidy that you don't notice the funny, witty, brilliant things that your children do every day.

Take advantage of the teachable moments. Enjoy the zany moments. 🤪 Catch your kids being creative and praise them for it. 🎨🖼️🖊️

Sometimes we have to stop taking everything so seriously. Give yourself some grace. Be realistic about what you can do in a day, and make sure the most important things get done. If you find yourself getting impatient (Heaven forbid!😂), take a break.

👩‍👦  My daughter has only been a mom for a little over a year, but she has already figured this out. (She learned it a lot sooner than I did. I was a Mommy Martyr.) She knows that she is a better mommy when she takes a day each week to go to the gym. She has her sister babysit, so Alessio gets time with his Aunt Kelsey, and Anna gets time to exercise and relax (if that's possible) without the constant concern and work of making sure Alessio is taken care of during that brief time. She is so excited and anxious to see Alessio when she gets back home, and the drudgery that comes with too much of the same thing is wiped away.
She talked about it here:

https://www.tiktok.com/@flamewithgame/video/7466323789509299502

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I've started writing on Substack, so if you're on Substack, I'd love it if you'd follow me there. I'm sharing homeschool stories and wisdom I've picked up along the way as I raised 10 kids and homeschooled them through many crises and cross-country moves and confusing life situations. Homeschooling has kept us together and made it possible for us to survive as a family. I encourage homeschool families to do whatever it takes to make it work, because homeschooling is a blessing to the children and to the family. 

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I just found out about something that can clean your blood! Life is in the blood. And when our blood is clean, our bodies can regenerate and reverse the effects of aging. The testimonies of people who are using it are amazing. They say you can Live Younger Now. Check out iHeRQles here. I just got mine yesterday, so I'll let you know the results I see.

Find out how to get rid of microplastics and zombie cells.

This video tells the history of Nu Xtrax which makes iHeRQles.

This is a really good video called The Toxic Truth about what is making our blood dirty and clogging our microvessels.

If you are interested in checking out these products, go to my website here:

https://www.nuxtrax.com/penneydouglas

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Last month, I shared our journey of loss and faith when we lost our home and had to stay with my parents. After a month, we obeyed God’s call and left Ohio for Arizona. Though uncertain, we trusted Him and packed up our van—eight children, ten duffle bags, eight pillows, and a big bag of books.

I rode in the back to protect our slightly rambunctious 4-year-old, who might have been pummeled by his siblings otherwise. The duffle bags blocked the windows, leaving me unable to see outside. I traveled across the entire country, from Ohio to Arizona, without seeing a thing!

That journey, though challenging, was one of faith and obedience. Each mile brought us closer to God’s plan, even when we couldn’t see where we were going—literally and spiritually.

Homeschooling requires the same faith. It’s about stepping out, trusting that God will provide, even when the path is unclear. Let me help you develop the confidence to homeschool fearlessly, knowing He will equip you every step of the way.

I want to invite you to walk with me and my son, Shawn, through your homeschool journey. We put together a course, and I would love to go through the course with you.

The Basics of Learning and Homeschooling coaching e-course

I will teach you about readiness, learning styles, stages of development, and other factors that make it easier for children to learn.

We want to make learning easier for children, not harder. With this understanding, you will feel more confident about your ability to evaluate your child's needs and the best way to meet them.

My son, a homeschool graduate, shares his knowledge and ideas about homeschooling and learning in the videos in this course. He has studied these concepts, because he cares about how children are taught as he endeavors to reach out to the younger generations with advice and encouragement, so they can live their best life.

Through this coaching program, you will have weekly access to me, and I will answer questions and follow up on the teaching from the modules. If you have personal questions, we can schedule a private call. You will see a more peaceful, content attitude in your child when you start practicing the methods I teach in this course. I will help you feel confident and know that you are doing a good job of homeschooling your child.

I want to be your  homeschool life coach .
Join me here! You can also watch this video of my husband interviewing me about the course.

✏️In next month's newsletter, I'll share a powerful experience that showed me learning is always at work. Even when we're not actively teaching a skill like reading, our kids' brains are constantly processing, connecting, and building on prior knowledge. Learning doesn’t pause—it unfolds in the background, shaping understanding and mastery in ways we might not even notice.

Thanks for reading! 📜

As always, if you have any prayer requests 🙏, please hit reply and let me know. I've had a few reach out to me with requests, and it has been my absolute honor to pray for them every day. I write them in my book every day and pray for them.

🌻Love,

Penney Douglas, B. S. in Elem. Ed.

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Safe Haven News – February

Hey Safe Haven Family!

I hope this newsletter finds you well, unlike my family this week. We seem to be having a repeat of whatever terrible plague struck us in November. Lots of coughing and congestion, headache, sore throat, and fatigue. But we will get through this, too. Please pray for us!

The Lord has been answering some of my prayers lately in very specific ways, and I’m so thankful. I can’t share any details because they are prayers I’ve prayed for dear friends. Not my story to tell. But seeing God answer these prayers in miraculous ways has boosted my faith immensely. It feels like everything is about to get better for all of us. God is on the move, and there is a fresh wave of the Spirit. Be on the lookout for answers to prayers that you have been praying for a long time!

Please reply to this email and share answers you are seeing to your prayers. I would love to hear your testimonies.

And share with me any prayer requests so I can help you pray them in.

As we move into February, the season of love❤️, let’s focus on loving each other and receiving the love of God for each one of us personally. Let’s determine to plumb the depths of God’s love for us. “To grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ”. Eph. 3:18

This video helps us to draw closer to God through meditation and visualizing His many characteristics and ways that He loves us.  I edited it for Carrie Rebecca Jones who led the meditation. You can find more videos like this at Organic Life by Divine Design on YouTube.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Have you ever thought about this?

It takes great faith to homeschool. 

What do I mean by that? Well, let me share a story about how our faith was refined by fire, and how that has bolstered my faith that I can homeschool through any adverse circumstances and that God will provide everything I need for homeschooling. These are His kids, and God provides for them all that they need when we pray and believe that He will do it.

Here’s what happened:

~ We had lost everything. Homeless and defeated, we found ourselves at my parents’ house. My father reluctantly let us stay, his disappointment palpable. When I say us, I mean my husband, me, and our eight children, including 1-year-old twins. The judgment from others was unbearable.

We turned to God, pleading for direction, but heaven seemed silent. One night, sitting in my childhood bedroom, I felt hopeless. Then came an unexpected call. A man we barely knew invited my husband, Gary, to lunch and delivered a startling message: we were supposed to leave Ohio. I was skeptical. “How?” I asked. The man’s advice was bold: announce our departure and trust God to provide.

Desperation drove us to act. We told everyone we were leaving, set a date, and prayed. Then, the miraculous happened. Money came from unlikely sources, even from those who had judged us. We left Ohio and headed for Arizona, not knowing what the future held.

That step of faith changed everything. Each subsequent challenge strengthened our trust in God.

Homeschooling requires the same kind of faith—believing that you can provide both education and spiritual grounding for your children. And that God will help you with this impossible mission – to provide a better education than any school could give your children. Let me help you develop the faith to homeschool fearlessly, trusting His guidance every step of the way. ~

To sign up for my coaching program go to The Basics of Learning and Homeschooling.

To read more of our story, get my book Refined By Fire on Amazon.

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Infusing Hope, Inspiring Action Gratitude Journal by Janita Pavelka is a very helpful tool for journaling and daily prayer. The entries are short, but they provide all of the benefits of journaling, such as being more relaxed and optimistic, more productive, and more likely to attain your goals of reading God’s Word first thing in the morning and last thing before you go to bed.

If you would like to have the spiral bound version instead of the version on Amazon, get in touch with Janita personally. I prefer that one because it’s easier to write in.

Just reply to this email with “I want Janita’s journal!” and I’ll send you her contact information.

She is also the one who teaches Praise Moves, a biblical alternative to traditional yoga. You can find the website here: www.praisemoves.com.

I would be happy to put you in touch with Janita if any of these things interest you.

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One way to enrich your homeschool is to sign up your kids for online classes on Outschool.com.

You can find my book clubs on Outschool here. And be sure to check out all of the classes on  Outschool.com. There are hundreds of them to choose from about any topic you could imagine!

There are lots of Freebie printables for Valentine’s Day available on the internet.

Here are some of my favorites:

Love Theme Kindergarten No-Prep Printable Activity Pack from 1+1+1=1

Valentine’s Tea Party Set from theartkitblog.com

Valentine’s Worksheets – and don’t forget to scroll down to check out the multitude of links to other Valentines worksheets and activities from 123Homeschool4me.com.

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I have exciting news for those who like to find teacher-created curriculum at Teachers Pay Teachers.

TPT will be having a sitewide sale Feb 4 and 5. The stores that participate will have everything 20% off. This includes my Safe Haven Homeschooling Store. Everything will be 20% off those two days.

Save with the Narration and Copywork Journals for The Green Ember Writing Bundle!

All 3 products for only $7.20!

And check out my most recent products.

Exploring Our Learning Adventures: First Grade Curriculum Guide and Weekly Review Pages

Exploring Our Learning Adventures: Second Grade Curriculum Guide and Weekly Review Pages

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A homeschool mom that I have been mentoring for several years is now mentoring others. You can find her at Your Homeschool Companion. Elisabeth has a heart for homeschoolers who are struggling with homeschooling because they’re trying to do it the school way. She gives lots of tips and ideas for ways to make learning fun and active and as un-school-like as possible. She calls it de-schooling. She has a great Winter Bucket List you can find HERE.

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Thank you for being a part of our Safe Haven Family. I pray that you are encouraged and inspired by the things I share here. I’m here to serve, so if there’s anything you would like to see more of, please let me know. I want to be a beacon to light the way for you to homeschool successfully all the way through high school.

Wishing you love and peace,

Penney Douglas, B. S. in Elem. Ed.

Safe Haven Homeschooling

My books on Amazon

Curriculum I’ve created with a Charlotte Mason twist plus other conventional types of curriculum

E-course I created – The Basics of Learning and Homeschooling

Coaching Course I created – Also called The Basics of Learning and Homeschooling – I take you through the course and do a coaching call with you each month

My shop for homeschool merch, t-shirts, mugs, notebooks, phone covers, and much more!

linktr.ee/penneydouglas – All the places you can find me!

Changed By Love – My original Blog about Homeschooling, Family, Faith, and Alternative News

My YouTube Channel  – Safe Haven Homeschooling Channel – Homeschool Encouragement for Newbies and Burnt-out veterans, Family projects, Relationship Building, and Interviews with Homeschool Experts

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