Planning for Valentine’s Day

Do you plan everything? Do you look at a calendar and see what’s coming and decide how you’re going to handle everything and what you will do in what order?

Well, I don’t.

Not usually anyway. Sometimes I think about things a little bit ahead, but mostly I fly by the seat of my pants. I’m not saying that’s the right way. That’s just how my personality handles life.

But sometimes the Lord steps in to my unplanned life and gives me ideas. Like He did last night.

I was at Walmart and, of course, saw all of the Valentine’s Day stuff. It didn’t move me. No wheels started turning or lightbulbs came on. But I was standing at the deli waiting for Gary to order chicken when I saw these cute little toast things.

Something about these little guys just got to me. They're so cute!

Right then, inspiration struck. I should have a tea party for my kids for Valentine’s Day and make little sandwiches with these little pieces of toast. That set me to looking for other things to serve at our Valentine’s tea party. I found some little red foam plates. I had already picked out red plastic cups, not even in Valentine-planning mode yet. Now the wheels were turning. I went over and got the waffle maker I saw on a previous shopping trip that makes 3 heart-shaped waffles.

This is very cute, too!

Now the wheels were smoking! I got a bouquet of pink flowers.

These flowers have silver glitter on them and a faint rose smell.

I looked at some of the icing-covered cookies and brownie bites, but I really don’t like all of that icing. So I think I’ll do something with heart-shaped chocolate cookies that we make ourselves.

When I got home with the flowers, the kids knew something was up. I told them my plans for a Valentine’s tea party. Morgan said he didn’t want to be at a tea party. That’s for girls. But Kelsey convinced him that it’s not just for girls and it wasn’t all going to be pink. There would be lots of red, too!

I showed them the waffle maker and they were all excited, even Morgan. Anna said, “Sweet!”

So there you have it. I’m planning something several days ahead of the event. I don’t always have to be spontaneous. Now I have more time to get some more stuff for it. I can hear Gary groaning now.

Wheels for Noah

Help a homeschooling family get the transportation they need for their whole family. The Estes family are the owners of Hands and Hearts, an online store that sells homeschool materials http://handsandhearts.com. They have really neat resources, btw. 🙂

Their son, Noah, has a mitochondrial disorder and is now at the point where he needs to be in a wheelchair. They cannot modify their present van to put in a wheelchair lift without losing seats which they need for their other children. They have 8 children.

(I have the button for the blog that gives updates on Noah on my sidebar now. Noah is such a cute little boy, and he has been through so much. Please pray for him.)

The Lord has given them a plan and opened doors for them to do a fundraiser. Details are below. If you can help in any way, please do what you can. At least spread the word about this fundraiser for Noah called Wheels for Noah.

These are the details sent by his mom, Kate Estes.

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_Happy, Sad, Exciting News_

Posted: 09 Feb 2011 01:53 PM PST
Happy, sad, exciting news – how’s that for a mixed emotional bag? Not long ago I asked for prayer for clarity regarding a fundraiser for a wheelchair-accessible vehicle for Noah. The Lord really opened things up as of a few days ago, and Jeff and I have been able to accomplish an incredible amount with His help – Jeff here at home, and me in the hospital when Noah was sleeping or engrossed in a video.

The whole thing has me happy because we NEED this vehicle and I know it will be a huge blessing for all of us, especially Noah. It makes me sad because, well, because it stinks to need a wheelchair-accessible vehicle. To be honest, while it makes me sad sometimes, I did most of my grieving last summer as we came to terms with the fact that Noah would need a wheelchair. It was a very, very bitter pill to swallow, but at this point I’m choosing to rejoice that he is getting his ideal chair (next week!!!) and that the
Lord is opening doors for a fundraiser for the vehicle.

It’s exciting because while we were hoping to do something toward the end of March, the Lord has shut the doors for every date except March 5th.
Gulp. That is really, really soon and we are going to have to move really, really fast.

Here is the 3-fold plan:

1. On Saturday, March 5, we will be having “A Night for Noah” at our church. It will be a fun family event with all sorts of activities. The key fund-raising aspect will be a silent auction.

2. On Friday, March 4th- Saturday, March 5th, we will be hosting an ONLINE silent auction for those who can’t attend the local event.

3. On the fundraiser website (I’ll share about that in a minute), we also have a place for direct donations and for sponsorships (where individuals or businesses can buy a small ad that will go on the website.)

It’s a lot to get done in 24 days, but the Lord is already opening doors left and right. We’re interfacing with local friends, family, and community members to get the local event (A Night For Noah) off the ground, but we need the help and support of our online friends in order to make the online silent auction a success. While it’s always been painful for me to ask for help, I’m going to jump right in here and list what we need:

1. We need your help publicizing this event. It will take a LOT of
publicity to pull this off, but if each of you blogs, tweets, emails, and posts on facebook, we can create some massive momentum. Many of you probably also belong to online groups like Yahoo groups where you could spread the word.
We also know that many of you are a sort of contact person for a church, Bible study, etc. that you attend in real life – please let those people know as well.

Please contact owners of websites and blogs that you read as well! Doing so has the potential for them to spread the word to their entire circle of influence! Please tell everyone you can about this event and direct them to the fundraiser site – _www.wheelsfornoah.com_
(http://www.wheelsfornoah.com/) .

2. We need donations for the silent auction. We need donations of all kinds – gift certificates to online merchants, gift certificates/vouchers for national chains (restaurants, hotels, chain stores, etc.) and physical items. The items can be donated individually or combined into themed baskets (chocolate lover’s, date night, gardeners, book lovers, etc.) There are tons
of theme ideas in the “How to Help” section of_ www.wheelsfornoah.com._
(http://www.wheelsfornoah.com./)

3. We need financial donations – there may be people in your circle of influence who can’t donate something to the auction, but who would be willing to make a financial donation. Again, they can do this right on
_www.wheelsfornoah.com_ (http://www.wheelsfornoah.com./) .

You could donate an item yourself if you have some sort of business. You could go in with some friends to build a themed basket. You could also approach other businesses and ask them for a donation – these could be businesses that where you know someone personally, businesses that you patronize, and/or businesses that advertise on your blog or on blogs that you read.
They can be big chain businesses or little Etsy shops – every little bit helps!!

The _Wheels For Noah_ (http://www.wheelsfornoah.com./) site is a complete communication clearinghouse for all three facets of the fundraiser. You can read a more detailed list of ways to help and sign up to help right there on the spot. You can also upload donations you’ve procured for the auction – you provide the description, photo, suggested price, etc. I’ll read and modify these as needed – for example, I might choose to combine a couple of items into a package, then will approve them to go live on Friday, March 4th. The auction itself will be held right there on the site!

There is also a message board where you can indicate any merchants you’ve approached and what results you got. This will prevent anyone being approached by multiple people.

There is a “Donations” page where people can make direct donations via Visa or Mastercard and watch a thermometer rise toward our goal. There are instructions for donating via Paypal or check, and those payments will be added toward the goal thermometer as soon as they are received.

There is a guestbook where people can leave notes, prayers, and good wishes for Noah. At the end of the fundraiser, we can get a keepsake CD containing all of the comments, notes, photos, message board entries, etc. from the site!

So, in a nutshell: please visit _www.wheelsfornoah.com_
(http://www.wheelsfornoah.com/) and read about ways you can help. Share the site with everyone you know and ask them to spread the word as quickly as possible. Consider asking for donations for the silent auction and ask people you know to do
the same thing.

I hope that my straightforwardness in this matter is not an offense to anyone. I don’t want a SINGLE person to help out of a sense of guilt – but by the same token, this is the only way I have to get the information out to the many of you who have asked to help, and it’s clear we’ll need a clearly organized plan if we’re going to pull this off so quickly.

Noah is doing OK – good enough to be home, but pitiful enough to make my mama-heart hurt. He doesn’t seem to feel terrible, really, but is very weepy, very tired, and very pale. His nurse described him as “ashen” when she saw him. It’s clear that having the flu and a bladder infection back-to-back has taken a huge toll on him, and it will take lots of time, rest, and prayer before he is back to himself. I’m practically counting the minutes until his new wheelchair gets here. I know it may seem odd to be happy about
getting a wheelchair, but like I said at the beginning of this post, I did my grieving a long time ago. I know that Noah will be SO much more comfortable in his new chair, and it makes my mama-heart happy to know that I can cheer him on when he feels like being active, and support him when he’s tired and weak. Thank you for continuing to pray for him!!!

Blessings,
Kate
P.S. Feel free to email me if you have any questions or suggestions about the vehicle fundraiser.

Winter in Your Heart?


Does it feel like winter in your heart?

Are you asking the question: “Is love alive?”?

You might like the following video and song I found.

The meaning reminds me of the last part of Bette Midler’s song “The Rose”.

Some say love it is a river
that drowns the tender reed
Some say love it is a razor
that leaves your soul to bleed

Some say love it is a hunger
an endless aching need
I say love it is a flower
and you its only seed

It’s the heart afraid of breaking
that never learns to dance
It’s the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance
It’s the one who won’t be taken
who cannot seem to give
and the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live

When the night has been too lonely
and the road has been too long
and you think that love is only
for the lucky and the strong
Just remember in the winter far beneath the bitter snows
lies the seed
that with the sun’s love
in the spring
becomes the rose

I found this video at a blog called Storybook Woods. This was my first visit there, and it looks very good. Lots of homemaking tips and craft ideas. Her blog is very artistic and beautiful. And it sounds like she has written a book. I haven’t read it, so I can’t recommend it, but you might want to check it out!

Update:

I’ve read the first chapter, and I feel sure that Wren Bay is a wonderful book.

Check out this promo video that Clarice’s daughter put together for it:

Patrick, Our Noble Son

Patrick has conquered many enemies and overcome many obstacles.

This is his most recent victory.

I'm tired of cutting his hair. Maybe I'll just burn it off!
But, seriously, today we celebrated a solemn occasion - Patrick's 15th birthday and what we called his Bar Mizvah.

His birthday was actually in September, but he didn’t want to celebrate it until we had moved to our new place. We all knew that we were leaving Illinois. We just didn’t know when or where. So, not only was Christmas postponed. His birthday and ceremony of passage to manhood were also put on hold.

Patrick couldn’t believe how many candles were on his cake. He thought I had put too many on there. He counted them. They all did some math in figuring out that there were three rows of five! He said it made him feel old to see all those candles on his cake. Oh to be so old again!

Patrick’s Bar Mizvah from Penney Douglas on Vimeo.

I said a few words about the growth and maturity I had seen in Patrick, especially over the last three years. I mentioned some of the character qualities that I appreciate in him, especially the way he’s not afraid to do hard things. I affirmed him in the gifts that God has given him. And I emphasized the fact that his spiritual growth and development is the most important area of growth and that I have been very pleased to see how he is growing. I read many verses to him that the Lord gave me for him.

These words are all written in his notebook in which I write a letter to him every year for his birthday (more or less).

The little ones were not too sure about what was going on, but they stayed pretty patient through our ceremony.
This is his purity ring. It says "I am my Beloved's. My Beloved is mine." In Hebrew and in English.

I ordered this ring before his birthday from C28.com and saved it to give to him today. I don’t know why he is holding Jesse’s hand next to it. I don’t think he’s planning to marry a doll.

Sometimes it’s hard to keep everybody on task!

Abby's cuteness and loudness provoked Shawn to grab her and try to settle her down on his lap

We made it through the ceremony. Then we ate the yummy chocolate pudding cake and ice cream. After we finished eating, I realized that Emma was no longer with us. She had snuck off to play a computer game. She was the one who bugged me the most all day about when we were going to start the party. And she made it through the less exciting part and then missed the cake and ice cream! She came in when I was the only one left at the table and said she wanted some cake. Fortunately, there was still some left.

I really like how it went today. I got some inspiration and ideas from this website, Raising a Modern Day Knight. I listened to Robert Lewis’ book on tape several years ago. So we did a ceremony for Shawn when he was 13 back in Ohio. We did it at his 13th birthday party. My mom and dad thought that it was kind of strange and that Shawn was too young to be told that he was becoming a man, but I think it was really good and set Shawn on the right path.

Today’s ceremony for Patrick was the right timing for him, I believe. He seems to agree that he’s ready now. I believe the Spirit of God led me in the way we should do it. I love the ring he chose. I love the words on it, the fact that it says them in Hebrew and the meaning that can apply to his relationship with God and his relationship with his future wife.

“I am my beloved’s. My beloved is mine.”

For now that is wholly about God. But I brought out the fact that he is committing that he will remain pure before God, before his family, before his parents, and he is promising his future wife (if it’s God’s will that he marry some day) that he will remain pure.

The plan is for him to give his purity ring to his bride at his wedding, and hopefully she will have one to give him. But he said his ring is so cool, he will want it back. So I told him he could get it back from her after the ceremony! With the inscription on it, it is a ring he should wear his whole life, so I thought that would be appropriate.

One thing we didn’t do that I just thought of while I was writing this post is to pray for him and bless him. We did that with Shawn. I forgot about it today. I think I’ll get the older kids together, at least, and have Gary and Shawn bless him and pray over him. We can do that yet tonight.

We did pray over Patrick the next day. It was very precious. Gary prayed, then Shawn, then I did. I think Patrick was really touched by our prayers. I’m glad I remembered. He told me that he wondered why we didn’t do that when I gave him his ring. I just have some fuzzy brain times that clear up after a while. I’m thankful that God helps with everything. When I’m weak, then He is strong. His grace is sufficient for me.

Passport to the World

Here is a fun opportunity to study countries of the world together with friends while earning chances to win a copy of a great new book.

Come join us at Christian Home School Hub for this fun study.

For 26 weeks we will be traveling to 26 destinations around the world, exploring and sharing as we go. Our itinerary will follow Craig Froman’s newly published book, Passport to the World, which is an A to Z guided language tour. Each week of our journey, 1 traveler will win a copy of Passport to the World, compliments of Master Books.

Here’s how our journey will unfold: Each week, a ‘ticket’ will be displayed at Christian Home School Hub showing the week’s destination. We want to find as many educational websites, activities, crafts, recipes, worksheets, etc. as we can about each destination!

To earn entries into each week’s drawing, all you need to do is share what you’ve found in the ‘Destination Share Box’ at the portal at Christian Home School Hub. Each web link, craft, recipe and activity you share with us will earn you an entry into that week’s drawing! There will also be other ways to earn entries each week, so watch for those as well!

I’ve already seen some great pictures of sites in Armenia and learned a little bit of its history just by doing some searches for this week’s ticket. And Craig Froman’s blog has some great Geography activities, too.

Lynda Ackert of the Christian Home School Hub has even developed some neat activity pages to help us study and report on what we discover along the way. She graciously gives us these pages for free at the portal here.

So come along with us on this learning adventure and get a chance to win a great Geography/Social Studies book.