The Boys (and Girls) Make Their Mama Proud

Mother’s Day was kind of strange this year.

My mom had just had a knee replacement three days before.

One of my sons and my husband had left the day before for a (possible 3 month) stint in South Carolina. Gary went for a job. Patrick went for a vacation. 🙂

Patrick knew that it would help Gary not to be so lonely if he went along with him, so that’s the main reason he went. But he doesn’t hate the swimming pool and independent lifestyle he’s enjoying right now. He always wanted to live a bachelor’s life. He’s getting his chance now.

But Mother’s Day was kind of melancholy without those two members of our family. Even though I still had 9 children here, the house seemed kind of empty.

The remaining children did their best to make it a nice day for me.

Fiona gave me a box of assorted books and cards and cd’s and a Snicker bar. She knows what I like.

The kids all pitched in and cleaned the house real well.

Kelsey picked a bouquet of wildflowers for me.

She also made chocolate chip cookies.

Anna bought petunias and planted them for me in front of the house.

Emma got me a Reese Cup as she got herself a special treat at Walmart.

Abby graced me with the privilege of buying her a candy bar during said trip to Walmart.

And my Boys…

Well, my boys made me proud.

Morgan (10) and Garrett (7) baked peanut butter cookies with a little help from their friends.

Boys in the Kitchen from Penney Douglas on Vimeo.

Shawn was listening to Sherlock Holmes on the Gutenberg Project while his little brothers baked cookies. That’s the voice you hear in the background in the above video.

Shawn sang and worshiped the Lord with me that night, choosing songs that he knew I liked, and we had a nice prayer time together.

Today, Shawn made me proud again. Here is what I found him doing.

http://youtu.be/X9-nKu49MrA

Reading Dante while listening to Classical music from the period in which Dante lived. Can you get more cultured than that? What a great unit study!

They make me proud every day.

So do my girls.

I Want to Leave a Legacy

How will they remember me? Did I choose to love? Did I point to You enough to make a mark on things?

Another song about the same theme, by the men this time!

Aaron Jeoffrey wrote this song, and the video shows some great heroes of the faith. If you see some that are unfamiliar, look them up. One person can make such a difference in this world.

Just look at David Wilkerson.

The Lord is really speaking to me about the kind of legacy I will leave and the generations that will reap what I sow.

I’m taking this very seriously.

We are in the season of counting the omer. I’m taking stock and finding out what I need to work on. God is looking for people who are serious. We need to be intentional and purposeful in our parenting and in our relationships.

It’s too important to take lightly. We can’t just let time pass us by. Every moment is a gift from God.

Every child is a gift from God. Every marriage is a gift from God.

Let’s treat them as the precious gifts they are.

Another Abortion Center Director QUITS!

Here’s the latest update from 40 Days for Life:

Before I share the EXCITING NEWS about another
abortion facility director who just quit her job
during the 40 Days for Life campaign outside her
facility doors …

… I wanted to give you a quick update on our
progress toward the matching challenge of $118,500.

We’re four days into the seven-day matching period
and thus far, we’ve received one-time gifts and
monthly pledges amounting to $45,800 — a great
start, but less than half. We certainly don’t want to
miss out on the amazing generosity of the donors who
put forward this challenge by not hitting the match!

REMEMBER — every gift given between now and midnight
next Tuesday, May 17 — up to the $118,500 amount —
will be DOUBLED!

Make a ONE-TIME GIFT now:

http://40daysforlife.com/donate.cfm?selected=onetime

And the annualized amount of every monthly pledge
(multiply the monthly amount by 12) made between now
and midnight next Tuesday, May 17will be annualized
(multiplied by 12) and then DOUBLED!

Make a MONTHLY PLEDGE now:

http://40daysforlife.com/donate.cfm?selected=monthly

And if you itemize on your taxes, 40 Days for Life
is a 501c3 non-profit, and your contribution DOES
qualify for a deduction.

Please help TODAY if at all possible — and thank you
to everyone who has given already!!

Now for the exciting news …

If you listened to the MOMENTUM webcast and
teleconference on Tuesday evening, you heard about
the many AMAZING victories God provided in response
to your prayers during 40 Days for Life.

One of those victories in particular was absolutely
an answer to many prayers.

The director of an abortion facility where a 40 Days
for Life campaign was conducted for the FIRST TIME
this spring just quit her job, thanking the 40 Days
for Life effort for helping her to get out of the
abortion industry!

This is one of TEN abortion center workers who walked
away from their jobs during this campaign alone …

… and one of 53 who have quit the abortion business
since the first coordinated 40 Days for Life campaign
in 2007.

Praise God!

This is a very sensitive situation for the former
clinic manager (who we’ve been working closely with
throughout this process), so I’m not going to identify
the person or the location. She will no doubt face
pressure when her former bosses learn the truth.

Members of the local 40 Days for Life team and
pro-lifers in the region have offered to assist this
former abortion center worker find new employment.

So please keep this courageous lady in your prayers!

But, there’s even more good news from around the
country — and the world!

To hear other inspiring stories from three additional
local 40 Days for Life campaigns sharing the blessings
they experienced, you can listen to a short audio report
at this link:

http://40daysforlife.com/blog/?p=2142

Let’s keep this momentum growing until abortion ends!

For Life,

Shawn Carney
Campaign Director
40 Days for Life

PS: Here are those links again for contributing to
40 Days for Life today — and having your gift
DOUBLED to help reach that unprecedented $118,500
matching challenge.

One-time gift:

http://40daysforlife.com/donate.cfm?selected=onetime

Monthly pledge:

http://40daysforlife.com/donate.cfm?selected=monthly

Your gift may also be mailed to:

40 Days for Life
10908 Courthouse Road, Suite 102229
Fredericksburg, VA 22408

~God has mightily blessed this movement. Let’s help them keep the momentum going. Please support them today.~

Dancing in the Minefields

How do we make marriage last?

Especially during the difficult times when everything falls apart.

When nothing goes the way we expected.

When our spouse lets us down.

Remember the promise.

The promise we made to each other.

And the promise our Father made to us.

Yea, though we walk through the valley of the shadow of death

He will stay with us.

He takes our mourning and turns it into dancing – even in the midst of the minefields.

DANCING IN THE MINEFIELDS
by Andrew Peterson

I was nineteen, you were twenty-one
The year we got engaged
Everyone said we were much too young
But we did it anyway

We bought our rings for forty each
From a pawn shop down the road
We made our vows and took the leap
Now fifteen years ago

We went dancing in the minefields
We went sailing in the storm
And it was harder than we dreamed
But I believe that’s what the promise is for

“I do” are the two most famous last words
The beginning of the end
But to lose your life for another I’ve heard
Is a good place to begin

‘Cause the only way to find your life
Is to lay your own life down
And I believe it’s an easy price
For the life that we have found

And we’re dancing in the minefields
We’re sailing in the storm
This is harder than we dreamed
But I believe that’s what the promise is for

So when I lose my way, find me
When I loose love’s chains, bind me
At the end of all my faith, till the end of all my days
When I forget my name, remind me

‘Cause we bear the light of the Son of Man
So there’s nothing left to fear
So I’ll walk with you in the shadowlands
Till the shadows disappear

‘Cause He promised not to leave us
And His promises are true
So in the face of all this chaos, baby,
I can dance with you

I got this from a blog called Crazy Messy Loud. I just “happened upon it” today, if you know what I mean.

On a similar note, I saw this article and video on CBN.com today.

The article answers the question “Is Marriage in America a Dying Institution?” with a resounding “NO!”. Read more about it here.