You have to have a good relationship with yourself to have good relationships with others.
The masculine emphasis is on identity.
Meaning and purpose are so important to men.
The female emphasis is on connection.
Women want to be connected and intimate with others. They are looking to connect.
We need both. Men are good at identity.
Women are good at connection.
But men need to learn how to connect, and women can help them with that.
And women need to learn their identity, and men can call that out for them.
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"Oh that God would give every mother a vision of the glory and splendor of the work that is given to her when a babe is placed in her bosom to be nursed and trained! Could she have but one glimpse in to the future of that life as it reaches on into eternity; could she look into its soul to see its possibilities; could she be made to understand her own personal responsibility for the training of this child, for the development of its life, and for its destiny,--she would see that in all God's world there is no other work so noble and so worthy of her best powers, and she would commit to no other's hands the sacred and holy trust given to her." -JR Miller
